Showing posts with label gossip in the church. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gossip in the church. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Consider the Lilies!

This blog post isn't intended to ridicule, belittle, or insult the dress of other Christians. It is merely a result of personal reflection. 

 I am not normal. I don’t care for fancy dresses or lavish shoes. I do like comfort and cool in the summer. And warm and toasty in the winter. I don’t want to look like a slob, but shopping for the latest styles isn’t high on my priority list. If I find a skirt on sale that I love (5$ for a skirt a Goodies!), then of course I snap it up.

 Recently, I overheard a group of ladies gushing about a certain type of dresses. How perfect they were. And if what they say is true, I have to admit that that style does sound appealing. So I checked them out.  $$$$$ Seriously!


$100s for one dress? 


If I had a bunch of Franklins laying around, I couldn’t do it.
Does that make me weird? Yes. Different, yes.
But is that a good thing or a bad thing?

I admit that I don’t fit in anywhere, and sometimes that gets me down. I want to be normal, but my brain can’t justify spending over $100 for a dress when there’re homeless people roaming the streets. Yes, we should look our best for God, because we are His representatives. But even though I have heard negative remarks from people, God’s opinion should be the only one that matters. So I took my self-doubts to Him.

Why don’t I have a closet full of nice clothes? 
Why isn’t it higher on my priority list? 
Why does it bother me that other people judge me lack of stylish clothes? 
Should I care more about clothes? 
Am I a bad Christian because I don’t have a new Easter dress every year? 
And why do Christians judge each other based on what we wear? 

God led me to Luke 12. He reassured me that heavenly treasures should be my focus.


The work of ministry is more important than its appearance. 



Because we ourselves are judgmental, many Christians are more concerned with how they appear, that what they are actually accomplishing for the Lord.

The number of souls won for His kingdom, is far more important that the number of dresses I have in my closet. 


So when you see me at camp, revival, or conference, and I’m wearing the same dress I wore last year, it's okay. Souls are more valuable than a dress. And I'd rather be clothed like the lilies in the field.

This post isn't intended to condemn. If God has blessed you with beautiful things, enjoy them. But don’t neglect the Great Commission. Don’t let things take the place of your calling.


Consider the Lilies.

Friday, July 24, 2015

Give 'em Something to Talk About

God Speaks


Several years ago during an altar service, the Lord told me to open both doors of the church. The doors leading into the sanctuary, and the doors leading outside. His voice was clear. I knew exactly what he wanted me to do. Still, I hesitated. 

Why? 


Why did he want the doors open? Why did he choose me to open them?

Then another voice whispered in my ear, “Don’t do it. They are going to talk about you.” As clear as if it were audible, the devil continued. “Brother A will be angry because the air conditioning is on and you will let the cool air out. Sister B will be upset at you because you will let the bugs in. And Sister C will be furious at you because you endangered the children by providing them a way of escape.” Though he called specific names, I have omitted them here.

So I asked Jesus, “Will they say those things?”

My Lord replied, “Yes. But I didn’t ask you what they would say. I told you to open the doors. Now, go open them.”

Obey God


I did. Immediately a powerful wave of the Holy Ghost blew in and changed lives.

I will never forget that night, because God proved that His blessings far outweigh the opinions of others. 

Even after the service, when the devil made sure I heard the very ones make the exact comments he said they would make. I just smiled because obeying God was worth it.

People talk about me.


 I’ve been serving the Lord for about 15 years now. I’ve attended countless campmeetings, youth camps, revivals, mission trips and outreach services with some of the greatest men and women of God on Earth. However, one thing I've learned is that people (both sinners and saints) love to talk. 
They’ve talked about my failures, and I admit that when I stumble I usually land face first. 
They’ve complained about my methods of teaching: transforming the fellowship hall into the wilderness/promise land complete with trees, sand, manna, river, and grapevines; playing ball in the church; taking a field trip all the way to Ohio; dressing the children up as beggars and reenacting the lame man at the Gate Beautiful scene as a fundraiser delaying the service because I told the children the had to beg until they were healed. 
They’ve complained about my method of ministry; picking up hitchhikers, witnessing to prostitutes and preaching to drug addicts.  
They’ve talked about my trails. 
They’ve talked about my problems. 
They’ve talked about my mistakes. 
They’ve talked about my past. 
They’ve talked about my pastor. 
They’ve talked about my church. 

I’ve given people a lot to talk about. I come from a long line of unchurched sinners. When I got saved, I didn’t know church protocols. I didn’t know traditions. I didn’t know the do and don’ts. And because I didn’t know, I’ve made some huge mistakes that I regret tremendously, but I will never regret obeying God.

People talk about you. It is what they do.


People are flawed. All of us. Though we try our best, sometimes we fail. But that should make us try harder. It shouldn't make us want to quit. Yes, people will talk about you.

They will talk about your successes.
They will talk about your failures. 
They will talk about your methods.
They will talk about your past.
They will talk about your present.
They will talk about your future. 

Give 'em something to talk about.


Even though people will talk about you, open the doors anyway. Why? Because Jesus needs them opened. He needs to an avenue to send Holy Ghost power to help people, and He’s entrusted you with that job.

Yes, people will talk. Give them something good to say. 
Can they talk about how many people have been healed due to your obedience to God? 
Can they talk about how you helped the hurting? 
Fed the hungry?
Prayed for the prostitute? 
Loved the drug addict?


If the answer is no, what are you waiting for? You don't need permission to obey God. If you hesitate to do what God has told you because of what people might say, let me reassure you. Yes, they will talk. But Jesus knows that, and He called you anyway. So obey God. 

And Give 'em something to talk about!